In Giving, You Receive
Growing up, Christmas was one of my favorite days. Nothing seems quite as magical to a child as waking up to a stack of gifts just waiting to be opened. My mom always did a great job of surprising us with thoughtful gifts that made us feel seen and loved. Now, as a parent myself, I have come to find that there is another side of Christmas magic that I didn't experience as much as a kid, the joy of giving.
Gift giving doesn't just have to happen at Christmas, anytime of the year is a great time to experience the delight of giving. Many times we think that the one who benefits the most in a gift exchange is the one who gets the gift, but I think the best part is actually saved for the giver. By giving of ourselves, either our possessions, money, or time we find out the thrill of giving multiplies, even when done repeatedly, and it's an internal satisfaction that can't be taken away.
When you are going through a rough patch or feel like you are stuck in a slump, take the unexpected approach of finding someone that you can give a gift to and take note of how it affects your own mood. This could be as simple or as complex as you would like it to be. Maybe it is as easy as paying for the person behind you in the drive thru or sending a friend a card in the mail or even writing an encouraging text. Or maybe you surprise a family member or friend with their favorite snack or meal. In the process of spreading cheer to others, you will also find that your own heart is filled as well.
Often we think that the sacrifices we make in giving will deplete our energy, time, or resources when actually quite the opposite usually is the result. By giving to those you know, you will find the connections you make end up being stronger and those relationships may improve in many unexpected ways. Even by giving in secret, or to a stranger, you will find an inner peace and joy results from your own act of kindness. When you give your time to a cause bigger than yourself, you become invested in lives other than your own, and you often come to realize that your level of involvement will lead the way to a deeper sense of personal purpose and meaning.
So whether you grew up in a family where you were on the receiving end of many kinds of gifts or don't have a lot of experience with either giving or receiving, don't let it hold you back from finding the areas where you can give of yourself even today. The experience and thrill of giving is only understood by those who put it into regular practice. The gifts you give to others can leave a lasting impact on them, but don't be surprised if you are the one affected the most.
Challenges/Points:
Often the giver of a gift receives an internal joy that is unmatched by other experiences.
There are many ways to give to others including gifts, time, talents, or resources.
If you are experiencing a rough time in your life, try reaching out as an act of kindness to someone else and take note of the effect it has on you.
Questions:
What was the best gift you ever remember getting? How do you think the giver felt in offering it to you?
What is one of your favorite ways to give to others? Gifts? Your Time? Your Talents?
Who is someone you could give a gift to today?
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